Because of the unsatisfactory living together, research has shown that in middle-aged men have increased risk of death three times.
The study, carried out by scientists at the University of Copenhagen and published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health.
Research conducted in Denmark included 9,857 men and women aged 36 to 52 years, found that an elevated death rate of men in relationships, or marriages in which there are frequent conflicts caused by women.
In fact, 315 of them died from the stress that is assumed to be the result of an argument with a partner. Also, due to the unsatisfactory life together research has shown that in middle-aged men at increased risk of death three times.
"Men, unlike women, have fewer people with whom they can share their concerns. Confidential conversations about private issues have only with a few friends or family members, and there are those men who never talk about it. It's a possible reason for higher rates of mortality among men, "said Dr. Rikke Lund of the Department of Public Health, University of Copenhagen.
She says that for men partner is often the only person they want to confide. However, when she becomes a major cause of concern and nervousness, men become depressed, and this can be detrimental to their health.
Also, when they are under stress, they are prone to fast food, alcohol, insomnia bothering them, which undermines health. On the other hand, the Danish study has shown that women, unlike men are less upset when their partner preaches and his nagging does not adversely affect their health.
So women: shut the fu*ck up!
The study, carried out by scientists at the University of Copenhagen and published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health.
Research conducted in Denmark included 9,857 men and women aged 36 to 52 years, found that an elevated death rate of men in relationships, or marriages in which there are frequent conflicts caused by women.
In fact, 315 of them died from the stress that is assumed to be the result of an argument with a partner. Also, due to the unsatisfactory life together research has shown that in middle-aged men at increased risk of death three times.
"Men, unlike women, have fewer people with whom they can share their concerns. Confidential conversations about private issues have only with a few friends or family members, and there are those men who never talk about it. It's a possible reason for higher rates of mortality among men, "said Dr. Rikke Lund of the Department of Public Health, University of Copenhagen.
She says that for men partner is often the only person they want to confide. However, when she becomes a major cause of concern and nervousness, men become depressed, and this can be detrimental to their health.
Also, when they are under stress, they are prone to fast food, alcohol, insomnia bothering them, which undermines health. On the other hand, the Danish study has shown that women, unlike men are less upset when their partner preaches and his nagging does not adversely affect their health.
So women: shut the fu*ck up!
I Knew It hahaha
ReplyDeleteSad thing is.....usualky the women nagging isn't their wife but the affair partners nagging them to leave their wives. Ever thought about that? Hmmmmmm, food for thought!!!!
DeleteI think you might be projecting a little bit, hon.
DeleteIts true wemen sincirelly shave ourlifespan by 10percent through begging.so u better keep off any relationship for ur stress free life style.
DeleteI can almost bet that the first reply on this thread is by a woman
DeleteSame thing I said. How are you going to deflect nagging onto an imaginary Woman? She must be a wife.
DeleteIt is said that behind every successful man, there is a woman, but what isn't said is, behind every broken down man, there is also a woman.
DeleteIt's true, my wife has shaved 10 years off my life.
ReplyDeleteprobably more than that.
Deletewhahahahah, women are really powerful. LOVE YOUR WIFE DESPITE OF IT.
Deletelol
DeleteHow about men who are nagging mine is killing me with always having issues
DeleteYou married a woman
DeleteThe one you claim is the one that's killing you
DeleteNothing against men...I love my husband more than anything! But even as women when you are asked to do something more than once it puts pressure on you so on both sides if you are asked to do something that needs to be done that you can knock out than by all means make that person happy and have less stress in your life by not procrastinating.
Deleteit is important to realize that men relate the importance of the task to it's urgency. if you ask a man to put out the trash, he will, when he deems it a good time to do so. This is not procrastination. Since you did not express urgency, your request is vague your implied time parameters (now) are not expressed, therefore there is no urgency. If you said "can you please put out the trash now" then and only then have you properly stated your wishes. Men are not Mindreaders, we actually consider the words you said, not their implied meanings. When my wife would ask me to do something I would simply say, "I am busy with something else, is this important to be done right now?" If it's a yes I do it, if it's a no I may not do it until later. If you want better results, ask better questions. Unvoiced expectations are future resentments. This is how men actually communicate. Stop writing covert contracts on your husband.
DeleteA covert contract is an agreement you haven't actually made, but which you believe to be solid. Covert contracts occur when you have a plan in your head, some sort of trade, but it is never explicitly stated, so when it comes time for “payment” and it falls through, you feel cheated, but your spouse is oblivious
So another words, you need to express yourself as you would to a child.
DeleteIf by that you mean, be specific, then yes.
DeleteThey mean like you would a child, when they're first intoduced to the topic as newbies to life. Why are you grown looking to not be nagged, but literally need us to be on repeat about common sense things?
DeleteMaybe they just wanted to die sooner.
ReplyDeleteBecause of all the nagging, berating, unpredictable uncontrolled anger and threats to call the Police for alleged abuse, yes many men are no doubt looking forward to death. Peace and quiet in the grave! Ahhh...
DeleteYeah, my husband is the one doing this in our relationship. Then he kicks me out if I talk back. I'll probably die first.
DeleteWhoever does this, man or woman is killing the spirit of the person they chose to "cherish"
DeleteOmg John.. did you marry my wife? Cuz if ya did.. yer fucked buddy... And that's putting it nicely
DeleteHow did they do this test and researching if the men were dead?!!
ReplyDeleteThe deaths happened after the research began. Or else the researchers were all women and all intuitively knew what the men were thinking, or claimed they did.
DeleteI want to believe the research results depict exactly what's happening to men
ReplyDeleteThis research is so true.
DeleteTherefore men should never think of going into extra affair if they don't want to shorten their life due to stress and nagging. Anyway, men gave their wives a lifetime scar and took away 20% of women's self confidence due to infidelity and that's a nightmare for women all the rest of their lives. Nagging is the only way to release some of the pain. Men, don't even think of doing something stupid that would shorten your life.
It's easy to blame it on the man but a good woman will remain good no matter how bad her husband is. Instead of becoming bitter and nagging him to death, joining the band waging of women out there, women should try responding with love.
DeleteAnonymous is it about men going to have extral marital affair. You must be one of the nagging wife!
DeleteVery perfect
DeleteIt's possible, as most men only confine in their partner whereas women believed in family and friends as means of easing stress.
ReplyDeleteImagine.Man is in a tight spot here..esp if they try confiding in anyone!!First if not the partner, she will naturally out from your confidant and if she is the source of stress then you are all done with..hahaha
DeleteInteresting.. honestly in marriage most men die leaving the women it's could be true!!!!
ReplyDeleteThey do die because of their unfaithfulness some men can be so wicked towards their wives but the wickedness always hunt them
DeleteAll men are not wickedly betraying their wife. If only God could forbid her imagining something that isn’t true. My brunette wife found a blonde hair in our laundry one day. On the basis of that one hair strand she convinced herself I was having an affair, which I wasn’t! I worked for a railroad 60-70 hours a week & it’s almost all men there, over 99%! Where the one blonde hair came from I don’t know. Maybe someone at church, or the store. Maybe dropped on her at a restuarant or daycare. I just know I didn’t have an affair with any woman and lost my marriage to my wife’s imagination! There is NO WAY I’m going to do that again! No matter how quick or slowly I die I won’t do it accompanied by a NAGGER constantly berating me for things I know nothing about!
DeleteDefinitely a fake article. Grammar is terrible. The run on sentences caused my inner voice to run out of breath.
ReplyDeleteMy grammar sucks and I can find a lot of issues with this article
Click the link to the journal to read the research report.
DeleteJust get out of there when she starts arguing you with her delusional thoughts. You can't win in a women's argument even if you are right they'll start screaming. Or if better just try to avoid women as possible.
ReplyDeleteI confide to video games, lmao..It truly is very stressful when some simple things can cause a bunch of nagging etc..When you'd rather be @ work than home..that's not good. Your home should be the most chill, tranquil place in the world for you. And yet, here we are...
ReplyDelete#FACTUALS
Deletei used to nag back - for the sake of parity and explain my justification ..whatz yours ?
ReplyDeleteMen who write things like this live with their mothers.
ReplyDeleteAMEN
DeleteMine has this amazing ability, she makes me wish I was dead....
ReplyDeleteThis is a completely legitimate article. I have no doubt that these facts are true. We tired of listening to her shit. Dat bii tryin ta kill me, F@K!
ReplyDeleteWow! What are world for men. It is better not to touch and woman.....
ReplyDeleteThere is need for methodology of the research, and the link where one can read the full study. Thanks
ReplyDeleteThere is a link to the study in the second paragraph of the article.
DeleteWhen you follow the manual of the owner of marriage the home will experience peace. Even where there's frictions you will be able to manage it without causing damage. I
ReplyDeleteGod is the architect of marriage
Deletemy brother is a woman he speaks like a girl he nags and nags like he has a iron rod thorn stuck up his ass
ReplyDeleteLol take that ,woman one up for men lol
DeleteThose who nag should put chilli powder in there mouth
ReplyDeleteSome people marry for companion's sake. However, women are the most terrible human beings. God would've stop just creating man.
ReplyDeleteYou don't mean it women are wonderful they make the world beautiful
DeleteYes they do only in the bed:)
DeleteI just want to know why he can't tell at others , anyone the way he yells at me? Then if I should tell back he screams STOP IT! .....it will kill me!
ReplyDeleteHaha dont give her reasons to nagg then..
ReplyDeleteShare this with your wife and shorten it even more
ReplyDeleteLol my husband decided to share this with me because we argued tonight-this did not make things better
DeleteYou do know what it means when the woman comes out of the kitchen nagging at you.......you made the chain too long!
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of illiterate Russian troll wrote this bullshit?
ReplyDelete"She says that for men partner is often the only person they want to confide."
Really, Igor? Is that a fact?
Racist.
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DeleteYou Just Changed the Findings of original study. here they showed that men and women both are affected and the p value was o.o5 which was statistically significant.
ReplyDeletehahahaha..i love tis article ..its just facts im just fade up with my wifes nagging
ReplyDeleteI believe the researcher is from the community of guy( homosexual) supporter
ReplyDeleteWe men have been saying this for years you dont need a Phd to know this.
ReplyDeletewhat you give is what you get... be sweet and we will be the sweetest animal on earth...
ReplyDeleteThere are many women on this earth than men, if you nag me I will leave you for another women and you will suffer. I don’t care if we have kids or not, I want to leave a peaceful life. My kids will understand when they are grown. I can’t pretend that everything is okey and die silently.
DeleteBetter get a life insurance boys. So wifey will not be left with no money.
ReplyDeleteI swear your right
ReplyDeleteI'm facing same problem in fact I'm having bp because of her
Bro don’t try to disturb your life and die silently. Find another woman and start a new life, your kids will understand when they are grown.
DeleteLol he will just meet another nagger wanna the shit will continue
DeleteApt but the personality make up determines one's react8on men endure more to stave the children out of the pang of poverty through good education.
ReplyDeleteWomen are not our friends.
If we obey and follow God's principles in marriage, this research's result would not have been the outcome. God gave man the woman to be his partner in life therefore they must live joyfully.
ReplyDeleteDaniel Goleman, the author of Emotional Intelligence has similar observations especially chapters such as "Intimate Enemies" and "Mind and Medicine". This is wake up call to women who love their husbands.
ReplyDeletewomen nagged bcuase of some problems, some men do not respect the women rights like finance, provide good education the children, giving them nutritious food. Instead they focus on material things such buying cars which cannot afford to monthly amortization, cellphones and expensive clothes .
ReplyDeleteSo, let me ask the question, men. What the heck are you doing to make your wife get in your face and scream at you like this picture depicts?? If you say nothing, you, my friend, are a liar!! Will a woman just yell & nag for no reason? A few days out of the month, maybe. I say take a good long look at your own behavior before stereotyping your wife. The Bible says, the woman is the weaker vessel. Another place says, to dwell with your wife according to knowledge. If she’s nagging at you, get a little knowledge about your wife. “Happy wife, Happy life!” If you cant figure it out from there, then you’ll have Year’s shaved off your life by a weaker vessel........who’s weak now?
ReplyDeleteYes, she will. The problem I had in a relationship was that expressing or voicing any issues that I had with her will automatically be deflected. Then she would turn it around just as you just did and say "what are you doing to make me this way"? I've had to deal with a plethora of problems which I will not name in here cuz I'm not venting. But I will say that no matter how I would voice these concerns and issues with her, they would automatically turn into an argument, with her being the one that is yelling and screaming in my face. I then had to change my way of presenting issues, which still would not get worked out I might have. I would say hey, what can I do 2 make you not treat me a certain kind of way? Or hey I wish my smart sexy and beautiful woman would not try to belittle me or throw past personal dramas in my face when confronted with an issue that I have with her. I would try this calmly, I will try whispering it, I would try it with a smile. It always turned out the same way. As if to say she did not want to be held accountable for what bads that she brought to the relationship. And I asked her clearly do I "bring all the problems in a relationship by myself"? And she answered yes. This can be quite frustrating. And she does not seem to understand the basic needs of a man. To be respected, have companionship and let's be honest sex. So when sex is off the table, I still have to meet all of her needs, once respect is off the table I still was expected to meet all of her needs, and when companionship is taken off the table I'm still expected to have all of her needs. And if she treated me badly, she would expect me to apologize for her acting that way. "Well, you shouldn't have done what you did to make me react that way". But yet I have to keep my cool at all times. Does that seem fair?
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ReplyDeleteWhen wives nag it's simply an indication they are sex starved at that moment and need sex. Ever seen an oversexed wife nagging? Nahh
ReplyDeleteSince God the creator of human being could not satisfy woman who on earth can satisfy woman.let me state it clear hebe,no woman is good we are just managing them.if you are lucky to have a better one thank your star & treat her good.
ReplyDeleteIt true that men life was shortened through the nagging of women , this can cause hypertension for men
DeleteSince God the creator of human being could not satisfy woman who on earth can satisfy woman.let me state it clear hebe,no woman is good we are just managing them.if you are lucky to have a better one thank your star & treat her good.
ReplyDeleteThe book of Job 14 as from 5 to 6 it is our heavenly Father who gives the days, months and years one should live on earth.
ReplyDeleteI can't agree more with this legitimate article , pretty authentic
ReplyDeleteConstant nagging by women can really dislocate your brains
Proverbs 25:24 It is better to live in a corner of the housetop [on the flat roof, exposed to the weather]
ReplyDeleteThan in a house shared with a quarrelsome (contentious) woman.
Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent.
ReplyDeleteSoooo.....
ReplyDeleteWord to the wise. Marry well. Start practicing early. Date with a purpose more than sexual. Date to find a friend. Commit like a Christian. Which brings me to my last suggestion- you learn these values in church (where you could probably find said woman) btw. Church marms do know how to get down and in my experience, the best sex is deep loving committed sex. So why waste your time with the non-marrying type. In fact, "men" require them to be ladies and they'll gladly conform. Trust me. They like leaders. BTW. LEADERS LEAD BY EXAMPLE sooooo.... BE A MAN AND YOU'LL SCORE A SEX LOVING LADY!!!
LOLOLOL!!!! 9,857 men and women aged 36 to 52 years and 315 died from nagging. Nagging??? Do the math. Does this sound reasonable to you? Do you personally know anyone between 32 and 52 to die of nagging? C'mon! Pull your head out of your ass. This entire article was completely made up.
ReplyDeleteI believe it.
DeleteI sand it to my wife,,Just what my wife said I was shock,,she said what about husband that say awful words later he we start laughing like say he didn't hurt her partner,,I know she is talking to me,,so I said I dont know about that o,, she said do research
ReplyDeleteAdam had everlasting life until eve came,
ReplyDeleteCorporal punishment for wives works. Try it today.
ReplyDeleteI wonder if perhaps it has less to do with the nagging and more to do with being the sort of person who needs to be nagged. Perhaps lower levels of cleanliness, organization and activity have a gradual detrimental effect on health.
ReplyDeleteThing is, women or men nag because there is a reason to. The women or men are unhappy because their needs may not be fulfilled by the other. Usually it starts with a request, but when the responses or fulfillment are not met, then it becomes nagging. If you really love your spouse, then try to fill those needs, and if you can’t, then communicate that with love and care.
ReplyDeleteSee. I see this a a nagging response. There is never a reason to nag. What request or need going unfulfilled requires anyone to nag. If I ask for something and it does not get done, then I do it. I don't nag. Stop expecting anything and be greatful for what is done and everyone should be happy.
DeleteMaybe men shouldn't be lazy and actually do the job that the women asks you nicley to do and not half ass shit and then you wouldn't be nagged by a women. That's the problem with men: majority of men don't do the job they say their gonna do or ends up doing it incorrectly and so it puts the woman in a nagging situation. So instead of telling women to shut the fuck up: at the end of your article: because that makes you look like a bigger idiot. Maybe men shouldn't put their woman in a nagging situation by being lazy and you wouldn't have stress or a short life. Most men also don't eat healthy or take good cares of their bodies which also affects your health. A happy life is a happy wife. Make the woman happy and don't put them in nagging situations and you'll be fine. Can't put it all on woman: when it's mostly the men that is messing up 90 percent of the time. Men are more to blame than women.
DeleteAmen sister.
DeleteCa steel... Stop expecting things from your life partner? Really? It's a partnership. Both sides have yo hold up their end or life becomes harder for the one who cares. It can't all fall on one person. That's just ridiculous. Might as well be single if a dude is like "just stop expecting things from me, appreciate the little that i do and do everything else yourself." I'd stop nagging that guy and tell him to get bent.
DeleteMaybe y'all should stop being so dang dumb and do your jobs without being asked like grown ass adults and no one will feel the need to nag you. Ooor stay single if you can't handle a partnership. Lol. Duhr....
ReplyDeleteBeing in a relationship or marriage is definitely harder than being on your own. When you're single you have no one else so answer to other than yourself, no need to compromise, you can literally come and go as you please. Being married or in a relationship means working together, compromising, dealing with your own stresses while taking another person into consideration, and respectful communication which is sometimes easier said than done. Not everyone will agree and there will be nagging on both parts. It's all part of it and goes both ways for men and women. If your relationship is causing you do much stress that it's affecting your mental health, then be an adult and deal with it or don't be in one.
ReplyDeleteDid these researchers take into account that typically men smoke and drink more than women? What about having to stay at jobs they hate for their families insurance coverage? There are too many unresolved variables to consider this conclusion absolute.
ReplyDeleteI have no fear of dying
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ReplyDeleteHas anyone noticed that men do not constantly instruct their wives or partners to do something, in fact men generally do not try to manage their partners lives or time at all.
ReplyDeleteWomen seem programmed to constantly nag and instruct men and aren’t happy until they do, and don’t seem to be afterwards either.......Just throwing that out there.
It's better to stay outside on the roof of your house than to live inside with a nagging wife. Proverbs 21:9 in the book of wisdom Proverbs God said it first.
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