Tips to Revitalize Your Relationship

Do you need to add some sparkle to your relationship and give it a bit of a lift? These tips are here to help you do that and give things that kick they may need.

Craft the Atmosphere
Dim the lights, dress up the living room or bedroom, DJ some sensual music, and plan for intimacy. Set the tone by appealing to all the senses. Use some lovely-smelling candles for light and scent, serve snacks that melt in the mouth, wear something appealing to the eyes, and plan to allow the cares of the day melt away as the two of you spend time together.

Don't Neglect Intimacy

It's important for a couple to enjoy intimacy together. Add some spice by dressing up from time to time, or if it is something that matches your couple style, even throw in dirty movies when the mood calls for it. Perhaps you could use eroticism and Loveplugs to bond, add spice, or even have a little something to laugh about later.

Take the Time to Get to Know Your Partner

If you are not moving forward together, you just may well drift apart. Therefore, it's essential to check in with your partner from time to time and treat them as if you just met, in a sense. Take the time to ask them how they feel, how they enjoy spending free time, what their values are and how they may have changed, etc. Ask about things you may have never known about your partner. This is a great way to show your loved one that you care as well as rekindle the spark in the relationship and strengthen your bond.

Send Messages

Let your partner know you are thinking about them when you are apart! Sending romantic or even sexy messages throughout the day, being sweet, playful, and flirty can help to set the mood for when you will be together. If you want to provide a nice surprise, slip a handwritten note into your partner's lunch, briefcase, etc., for them to find.

Get Away From it All

Life can get very busy and very hectic. This can cause strain on the relationship with your partner whether you realize it or not. So plan to take a break from life together and do something fun. Enjoy a day at the amusement park, a sporting event, a picnic in the park, or whatever will help you each bond as you allow the stress of life to melt away. Add some spice and excitement by challenging your partner to a game, or even place bets with each other for an extra thrill.

Of course, you can always take a breather by cozying up to your partner at home. Plan a movie night, or even surprise your lover with their favorite meal or a back rub to help them relax, unwind, and bond with you.